Saturday, December 6, 2014

Letter to My Son

Dear Son,

It's been a difficult few weeks.  You and Daddy were sick at the same time.  Daddy got well after a few days, but when we brought you to the doctor, the test came back positive for Flu.  Yesterday in the news, the reporter said that Louisiana has the most cases of flu.  You even had the flu shot, but apparently, it wasn't for the right strand.  You seem on the mend now, though the coughing and running nose remains.  You run a fever from time to time, but it's not consistent.

It's no wonder about the sickness out there.  Even Mommy got a sinus infection... the weather is back and forth.  Today we are wearing shorts.  In December....  and next week we will probably need jackets.  This is our winter, sweet boy... cold only when the cold fronts make it far enough south.

To back track a few days ago, on Black Friday, we made an attempt to go shopping as a family.  Oma and Opa were out of town and they asked us to go to Copelands for the Black Friday deal they were offering on gift cards.  We saw the line, but figured it would move quickly.  It was a cold day then...  Daddy waited outside in the line, while we stayed in the car.  You didn't want to remain in the car seat.

Even after Mommy took you out of the carseat, you were an unhappy child.  You screamed so much I thought for sure people in the line would come running to the car.

Mommy did the best she could to keep you entertained for an hour and a half.  Yes, it took Daddy that long to get the gift cards.  The lines were that crazy.  Here's a life lesson, don't go shopping on Black Friday.  Mommy did get some smiles from you.  You played with her sunglasses, the seat belt, Mommy's hair.  We turned grumpy time into fun time.

There are some bonuses to you not feeling well... you became a velcro child.  Normally you are independent, wanting to explore, run, play as you want and there are moments when you want to hug and cuddle... but when you aren't feeling well, you are a snuggle child.  You want to be in Mommy's or Daddy's lap.  And at night, you wrapped your arm and leg around Mommy's arm and put your head on Mommy's shoulder.  Very sweet... until the coughing wakes you up... sharing your germs on Mommy.

We knew you were starting to feel better when you played more with your toys.  Will you ever have enough toys?  Daddy thinks so already.  Hehe.  Even when you play with toys, you are sweet.  You like to share the toys, bringing us cars, plastic veggies, etc.  Oh, but when you tried to peel the plastic banana, Mommy had to laugh!

Your words are clear, cat, car, truck, iPad.  But not "mommy" or "daddy"...  You know how to show us what you want.  We ask you a question, "Do you want to get out of the bath tub?"  You swing your head from side to side, "No."  (Daddy likes the next picture.  He said, "Gregory looks like he is playing fetch.")

You are leaning back more and more in the tub too.

Our Christmas tree is up!  Daddy did the honors.  Mommy was sick and you were still fighting the flu.  It was the weekend after Black Friday.  Daddy felt better and he was in the Christmas mood.  You'll learn how much Daddy is like a child during Christmas time.  It's one of the things Mommy loves about Daddy; his Joy of the Season.  This Christmas you are more into the decorations.  You like the lights on tree.  You want to explore the new things we decorated with.

I think Santa already has some toys made for you.  You are on the "Nice List" - I'm sure of it!

But there's something I should warn you about.  When your Daddy was a little boy, his parents told him, "See the vents on the ceiling?  Santa's elves live there throughout the year to see if you are being good or not."  Don't believe it!  Santa's elves are too busy making toys during the year :)

You have grown so much.  You waive "bye bye" even before you hear the words.  If you know we are leaving, you waive.  You blow kisses too by putting your hand to your mouth, making the smooch sound and throw your hand out.  Mommy and Daddy get a big kick out of this.

I'm glad you are feeling better, but we are keeping a close eye on the cough and running nose.  (Oh, you love to squeeze noses.  Daddy makes a loud HONK sound when you squeeze his nose and you laugh.)  Today you didn't have a fever and the weather was nice.  After breakfast we took you to the park.  We even saw some fall colors while you played.

Open the park gate Mommy.  When we walked from the parking lot to the gate, you held on to Mommy's hand and to Daddy's hand.  So sweet.

You love the water fountain.

Daddy likes this next picture, "He looks like he is posing."  No, just a good chance shot by Mommy :)

Look, we made a new friend, Ken.

Mommy likes this next picture, even though it's backlit.

Come here Mommy

You love going to the park, lots of places to run and explore.

Aunt Yaya gave you a haircut, but you'll be needing another one soon.  That was an experience.  You don't like anyone messing with your hair.. or nose... and heaven forbid if we try to wipe your face after you eat!

Sitting like a big boy.

Little legs hanging off of the chair makes Mommy smile

You grab on to the poles and pull really hard and make grunting sounds.  You think you are Super Boy, able to lift everything.

Our weather in Louisiana might be off at times, though technically we ARE still in the fall season.... but mornings like this, well it's a sweet blessing.  It makes Mommy and Daddy happy that you enjoy the outside so much.  We hope the park time helped to get some fresh air into your lungs.  Keep smiling, son... you make this world beautiful.

Love Always,

Saturday, October 18, 2014

Letter to My Son

Dear Son,

Today was the perfect weather day to go to a fair and celebrate you turning 20 months.  You have been on quite a few carousel rides, so it's no surprise when you saw one at the St. Edward's fair, you kept pointing to it.  Daddy took you on the ride and Mommy played shutter bug.

You were a little squirmy at first.  You knew the horses went up and down, but there was a short wait before the ride started.  Once it did, you were very happy.  Next up and a first for you, the red apple ride that goes round and round.  You should know that if you go on this ride with Daddy in the future, he wants to spin it SUPER fast.  Mommy kept saying, "Slow it down, I don't want a sick child."  But it was more likely that Mommy was the one feeling queazy.

Of course we had to go on the ferris wheel.  Interestingly enough, Daddy (who loves roller coasters) does not trust the ferris wheel!  This is a nice calm ride that Mommy likes and you enjoyed it too!  Your first time on the ferris wheel :)

I think one of the great things about having a child, is you get to be a child again at theses types of events.

Oma said that Mommy probably has every expression of your's on camera.  It's possible.

Here you are, with a frown....  "Which Cheerio should I eat first?  How many can I stuff in my mouth at once?"

And here you are with a fake cry.  Mommy was sitting in the bed with you and picked up the toy that you wanted.  You cried for 2 seconds and then started laughing again.

When we go to Caffe Latte Da, after eating you walk straight to the door and wait for us to open it.  Then you either will stop at the flowers for a second or go immediately to the outside chairs and table.  You love to sit there like a big boy.  You sitting in the chair and relaxing has become a ritual after breakfast.

I call this next one your "cat content" look.

The below picture is your "zoning out" look.  You and Daddy are watching kids apps on his iPad.

Here you are telling Daddy, "Take me with you" while he is packing for his work related trips.

You are very flexible.  I think this is a Yoga pose?

You might start driving before some adults that I know!

Uncle Rene came in town for a wedding and was able to visit with us.  You were ready to take our beignet order!

In this next picture, you are meeting your beautiful baby cousin for the first time.  Here's Mommy holding her great niece Alivia (love her name) and giving you a kiss.

This is your concentration but tickled look.  You are turning the pages of a Mickey Mouse pop up book.

The day begins with watching Mickey Mouse; he's your favorite...  Though you love it when Daisy Duck tries to get her pretend doctor's sticker.  You giggle when she starts singing, "Does your head hurt?  Do your shoulders hurt?  Do you knees hurt?  Then what's the matter?"

After your bath at night, you enjoy Paw Patrol.  There's one show where the pups are chasing bunnies and it makes you laugh as the bunnies pop in and out of the bunny holes in the ground.

You have a big boy bed, a full size.  The night routine is "musical beds."  Mommy will stay with you in your bed until you fall asleep, then she goes to her room.  Then in the middle of the night, typically around 1am or 2am, you wake up and wake up the household to join Mommy in her room.  Hopefully you will feel more comfortable over time with staying in your own room through the night.

Every day you grow, learn new things, watch carefully, play roughly, hug sweetly and teach us more and more about love.  You are our blessing!

Love Always,

Sunday, September 21, 2014

Letter to my son

Dear Son,

Just recently, you went to the doctor’s office for your 18-month appointment.  You were two weeks away from being 19 months old, but it was the earliest we could make the appointment with Dr. Heller.  You didn’t want to stand up on the big boy scale.  Fortunately, you did sit in the baby scale.  From 15 months to 18 ½ months, you only gained 1 pound.  This bothered me, but I also remembered reading that after 15 months, babies slow down in their rate of weight, mainly because children are walking off baby fat. 

In the waiting room.

You grew a little… but according to the nurse, your head shrunk!  Huh?!  The doctor came back in to do another measurement.  You don’t like anything on your head, not even a tape measurer.  You cried as if someone was wrapping your head in something hot and the minute it was off, you were perfectly happy again.  The doctor said that your height, weight and head measurement are still above normal and that means you are continuing on the same path of growth.  The doctor was happy and that made Mommy happy.

Right before his shots.

Sadly though, you did have to get a shot.  It will be the last one for immunization until you are four years old.  You actually received two shots; the other one was the flu shot.  Daddy was there to hold you in a strong, safe grip; Daddy said, “I’ll be the heavy.”  You cried with the shots and your tears rolled down Daddy’s arms.  After the nurse was finished, Daddy handed you over to me, because Mommy is the calming agent.  I picked you up in my arms and told you how proud I was of you.  Your little fingers wrapped around my hair and you settled down.

We also talked with Dr. Heller about your lack of speech.  He said, “As long as Gregory is responding to your words, we know it’s not his hearing.  Give him two more months and look for him to pick up a word here and there.”  Mommy is nervous, but hopeful.  You definitely respond to things that we say and you know how to communicate what you want.

Lately you have taken to grabbing our fingers and walking us to what you want, either the door to go outside or the refrigerator if you want something eat or drink.  In fact, Daddy and Mommy cleaned out the refrigerator and reorganized it so that some of the items you like (cheese, yogurt, etc) are on the lower levels.  This way, when you attempt to pull open the refrigerator door (and we open it for you), you can reach in or point to what you want at your eye level.

"I don't know what this is Mommy"

As for you bringing us outside… it feels like every 10 minutes you are pulling Mommy and Daddy to the French doors that lead to the backyard.  When Daddy first built the swing set, it didn’t seem like you enjoyed the swing all that much.  But now?  You can’t get enough of it.  You smile up a storm while in the swing and Daddy timed it… you have to be in the swing for a minimum of 20 minutes, otherwise you scream like a madman if we try to take you out sooner.  When Mommy wants to take you out of the swing, you hear, “Do you want to go down the slide?”  You have a small slide in the backyard too.  Then Mommy can get you back inside after that with a minimum of cries.  As much as you love the iPad, you love being outside too.

Mommy and Daddy like going to Caffe Latte Da for breakfast on the weekends.  You know the waitresses and waiters and most of the regular customers too.  While we wait for the order, you love to walk around the restaurant.  You now have a craving for Daddy’s oatmeal and the hashbrowns, but we can’t talk you into the omelet.  That said, you don’t like hot food, not even very warm.  The heat of food matters to you and even if it’s something you like, you will spit it out if it’s not the right temperature.

Each day you are learning more and more.  It’s cute to see you look at the shirt that you are wearing.  You love trucks and cars and Elmo and pictures with animals – all are great on clothing.  You are standing in front of the mirror more too.  It’s cute.  And you’re quick to point to ears, nose and mouth on someone else, but not on yourself.

This is Gregory's "house" - it's a tent over a play pen area.

Daddy and Mommy love to play “Hide and Go Seek” with you, but you don’t understand the concept yet.  If Daddy counts, then you hide with Mommy.  The minute you hear Daddy saying, “Where is Mommy and Gregory” you start to squeal with delight!  Daddy has to go out of his way not to find you and sometimes you squirm out of Mommy’s arms to look for Daddy.  Then if Mommy starts to count and you hide with Daddy, you put your face to the wall as if you are counting with Mommy.  It’s too cute!

Gregory counting for hide and seek

Lately we have given you more bubble baths.  No toys are necessary when there are lots of bubbles to splash around with.  Bedtime isn’t complete without a bath first, though sometimes you are super tired and go to sleep before a bath.  It’s a rare thing, but it does happen. 

Mommy has not been able to get you back to your toddler bed.  I think our cat, Tigger, is sleeping in your bed more than you!  But things will change.  See, you will go to sleep if Mommy is right there, but Mommy doesn’t feel comfortable trying to get you to sleep while she rests next to you in your toddler bed.  Daddy and Mommy are price shopping for a full bed in your room that can be low to the ground for you to get in and out of.  This way, Mommy can rest with you in your bed in your room until you fall asleep then Mommy will go to her room.  And hopefully you feel comfortable and will sleep the entire night in your room.  That’s the plan at least.

A lot has changed in our lives lately with Mommy going back to work.  Mommy started working when she was 16 years old and the first time Mommy was unemployed she was in her 40’s.  Then you came along, our little miracle, and Mommy took on a new, wonderful job of being a Stay-At-Home Mommy until you turned 18 months old.  It was a blessing to have this very special time with you, wonderful to create the bonding.  Even Daddy was unemployed for 3 months during this same time before Mommy went back to work.  Daddy bonded with you even more then too.  It could have been a hardship on our relationship, both of us being unemployed, but you were our focus and made us realize how lucky we were to have quality time with you.

But it’s good to work too.  Daddy got a job and then Mommy got a job.  You get to spend quality time with your grandparents, which is super special.  It’s another adjustment in life.  Mommy and Daddy have both worked before in their lives, but in our older age and now with you, sweet boy, it’s all new and different.

When we come to pick you up after work and you run into our arms with smiles, oh how the world melts away and all that matters is holding you close and giving you a ‘kiss attack’ – that’s when Mommy and Daddy both kiss you at the same time.  You open your arms and wrap your hands around our heads, pulling us closer to you.

You might not be talking right now, my son, but you are communicating and it’s beautiful.

Love Always,